Amizades Narcisistas

hey you - hey subscribers thanks for tuning in happy post Thanksgivin g to those of you who celebrate Thanksgiving I hope it was a nice one for those of you who had to spend time in the presence of narcissists yesterday and maybe even today and all this weekend good luck to you in this video I'd like to address narcissistic friendships so we've touched on narcissistic friends here and there in a variety of different ways in different videos but let's really hone down on that relationship dynamic the friends piece and I found a really great article the other day that really nailed it so the article was not writ ten addressing narcissist per se but every point in the article applies to narcissist so as I was reading it I go oh yeah they're just friends with a narcissist a narcissist is their best friend like it was very clear to me obviously the writers weren't taking that angle so let's read that article together and then I'll come back with commentary seven glaring signs you need to break up with the toxic friend and how to handle it with grace in case you want to get r friendship but there but there are some telltale signs that a relationship may no longer be benefiting you below therapists from around the country share seven signs you and your besties may need some time apart number one you do 90% of the listening and a good friendship there's a give-and-take you complain about your least favorite co-worker for the umpteenth time and in return you're always game to hear the play-by-play of their latest tinder date from hell it's a red flag if your friend hijacks the entire conversation if your friend is constantly taking and not giving at your expense it might be time to let them go she said think of it this way a friendship should be a reciprocated process and each of you in the relationship should yield a return number two you never hang out anymore or make plans and dread seeing them through then only go so far no matter how busy you are if you enjoy your friends company scheduling some FaceTime shouldn't be that hard the signs that it's time to break up may be subtle like struggling to schedule get-togethers